In something of a panic, she decided to try to craft a narrative about her adventurous, outdoorsy and difficult childhood, to recreate some of the stories she'd tell friends, the ones that would always elicit "you should write about that" responses. But it took that failed novel for her to finally feel ready to revisit those youthful days of soaring across Alaska in her dad's float plane, of remote camping, fly fishing, and hunting. And to write about her parents' divorce, which led to a back-and-forth, half-and-half life: private school in Baltimore with mom; summers and Christmas in Alaska with dad.
"Once I started writing, I couldn't stop," Newman said by phone. "So I knew I was on the right path." She also wrote a fantastic Modern Love column for the New York Times, about duck hunting with her father and husband, the response to which nearly crashed her Blackberry, "And I thought, 'Okay, now I have a book'."
The result, Still Points North--an Amazon biography & memoir Best Books of the Month pick for March--is a beautifully told tale of a gangly little girl who grows up with Jack London as a dad, confronting grizzles and gutting fish and, more than once, nearly drowning. "I grew up with the mistaken assumption that I'd grown up like everyone else," Newman said.
Still Points North is also a clear-eyed look at a broken family, at two people who should not have been together but who managed to provide their daughter with a lush, two-part life: wild and outdoorsy, bookish and refined. Newman ultimately makes peace with some of the previously unresolved details of her parents' split. And despite some rough times, she's grown to appreciate the many wonderful moments she experienced throughout her wildly unconventional childhood.
I asked Newman (who, as deputy editor for Oprah.com, knows a thing or two about books) a few questions about her book, what she's reading now, books that have influenced her life, and more.
letter to an Alaskan childhood. Also known as: how to surviving grizzlies,
stalling planes, raging rapids and a courageous eccentric family that couldn't
quite keep it together.
Describe your book in one sentence? Or two?
on your own is very Alaskan. Doing life all on your own is exhausting"¦ and not
What's on your
Godforsaken Idaho by Shawn Vestal.
Favorite 3 books?
Important book you never read?
Book that changed your life?
of A Lady. A woman who choose the wrong
life, despite all her freedom.
Book that made you want to
become a writer?
read it really young, on accident. I didn't what the hell it was. But I liked
the sound of it.
Red Tag Comes Back by Fred Phelger. It's
a story about a salmon. My dad read it to me just about every night.
What's your most memorable author moment?
everyone in the world think that the child on the cover of my book was not me
at age six, but my six-year-old son.
What talent or superpower would you like to have?
to read the instruction manuals with that come with Blu Ray players.
Best piece of fan mail you ever got?
from a woman convinced we had gone to summer camp together in the Alaskan
wilderness in 1969, before I was born. She described my camo pants, our work
detail felling trees and building roads. I liked her so much I thought I was
isn't living and once you've brushed up against the two conditions, you can't
pretend it's not a choice either way."
What's next for you?
A dog. Leonard,
my old friend, died last year. And it's time to get another big, stinky,
shedding, not-very-potty-trained animal in my life.
Finally, I asked Newman about the book's title, which is clearly a commentary on the continued pull of the 49th state on her life. "Still points north" comes from an unpublished poem by Elizabeth Bishop about her longing for the home she left in Nova Scotia.
Dear, my compass
still points north
to wooden houses
and blue eyes,
bring home the goose